Tuesday, April 21, 2015

UCCF


2nd day at the UCI: Tuesday



Soon after we arrived at the UCI today we stopped in at the UCCF, Uganda Childrens Cancer Foundation. This is where I was hoping to do some volunteer work and where we will bring the suitcase full of arts and craft supplies that St. Elizabeth Orthodox parish family filled up for us. I met Ben, I think he is the director, and Becky and several others. Becky is in charge of the children and I will work mostly with her. This foundation does a huge amount of work teaching families and their children about personal hygiene and it's importance. They travel to schools and meet with mothers to teach hygiene and show videos. I think I had a hard time understanding everything that he said. There were a few things talked about that were unclear and if I did in fact understand him it's pretty overwhelming. I think they might think I will be here much longer than I actually will because it seemed like he was thinking I'd be a whole lot more involved than I had thought to be. I'm only here a little over a week longer. Again, though, communication was a tad unclear. I will learn more tomorrow. Tomorrow we will bring the suitcase and they will inventory it all and we will set up what he called a “work plan” for me. 

We saw these cute little goats after lunch on the UCI campus. They are tethered up waiting for their owner to come back.



Tomorrow is now today and Isma will be here in 30 minutes or so to take us to work. I'll haul this VERY heavy suitcase to the UCCF and learn about my work plan!



Lord have mercy on me and may He help me be what I need to be to show His love to these beautiful little children.

The Lighter side of my first day.


1st Day at the UCI part 2: Monday 4/20/2015



For lunch on Monday we went to a nearby canteena called The Good Samaritan. We went with Patrick and the Lab Director, Michel (pronounced Michelle). This was my first encounter with a real Ugandan lunch. I had matoke which is steamed plantains that are mashed.
I found it quite good! I also had 2 small chunks of steamed sweet potato. This was not as good. I think the sweet potato is different from what we have at home. I typically love sweet potatoes. I had a chicken stewed in gravy sauce with a chapti (flatbread) and James ordered a g-nut sauce to dip the chipati in. G-nuts are like peanuts, taste just like peanuts, and it was made into a sauce. Patrick told me how to make my own with peanuts at home. This will be a very good addition to the lenten menu.

While we were there we ate out on the patio under a metal roof. When it began to rain it was so loud we couldn't even really talk to each other. 

Right next to the canteena a man climbed up a tree and cut down a jack fruit. This sounded like a 20-30# bowling ball being dropped from the top of the tree. It was a HUGE yellow looking thing. Marion was supposed to buy us some jack fruit because James wants me to try it. ( Marion did in fact buy me a jack fruit. It is the strangest fruit but was very delicious! )
 


Right before leaving the canteena we noticed a bunch of monkeys running around! In all James' time here he has only seen a monkey once and it was his first visit 8 years ago. I got some good pictures of the monkeys.

Introduction to the Uganda Cancer Institute


1st day at the UCI part 1(Monday the 20th)




Today was my first visit to the Uganda Cancer Institute to spend the day with James. I think all of James' visits to the Uganda and his pictures and descriptions over the last 10 visits he has made have really helped prepare me for this. Maybe. He keeps saying he can't believe how well I am handling everything but really I'm just not sure how I am feeling.



It was really fun to see Patrick and Rachel, two of James' co-workers that have been to the states and I have met. I met so many new people and everyone is incredibly welcoming. Everyone says “Welcome”. That is their greeting. Even the grocery store clerks, everyone you meet, “Welcome”.



First, we got a tour of the new facility. Wow!




This place is going to be so incredible! There are 3 stories plus a basement. The top floor is where all the laboratory research will take place, James' area.
And it looks and feels just like the buildings in the states. High tech everything. Clean and beautiful.



The 1st floor is where the clinics will be, where out-patient care is. The 2nd floor is where all the clinical trial patients will be seen.






There is a new in-patient hospital up the hill. Pediatrics is already there but I haven't been up there yet. (Maybe this is why I'm “handling things so well”, I haven't seen the pediatrics yet.)





After the new facility tour we got a tour of the current UCI facilities. This is where the differences really stand out. The differences between cancer care in the USA and cancer care in Uganda. Any medical care for that matter, I am sure. This is where your heart and soul just ache at the unfairness of life. Real unfairness. My kids think life is unfair because one sibling gets more than what they have or because their best friend got such and such a thing for Christmas, but REAL unfairness is very hard to take in and stomach. This sort of unfairness is what my children need to see to really appreciate their lives a little more. And I don't mean to pick on my own kids, I think pretty much every kid in America is just like my kids.



I love my babies and I thank God for all that we can give them, especially their home and their health care and the food on our table.



I did not take pictures of the cancer wards. It just felt wrong. Invasive. Insensitive. My descriptions will have to do. But first here are 2 pictures of some of the older, still in use, buildings.  The first is taken from the doorway of the current lab where Patrick and others work. This is taken on a clear day after the rain when patients are hanging their laundry out to dry. The building you see behind the clothes is the outpatient ward I will speak about below and to the left you can see a few people and that is where the line forms for xrays I talk about below. 
 This next picture is taken from the 3rd floor of the new building.  In the far distance is the city of Kampala.  The closer buildings are all part of the UCI campus.  Various departments. The 2 closest buildings on the left right behind the cars are the cooking facilities for the hospital. Yes, pretty much outdoor kitchens as there are no actual windows and it's wide open.


The first thing noticed is the long lines at every department. We had a view all day from our offices of the long lines for the x-ray department. People sitting outside just waiting. Around the other side of the building were people sitting and laying outside on the lawn waiting to be seen in the out-patient clinic. They had their mats and blankets, the loved ones caring for the sick. These are pretty much all adults as pediatrics has been moved to the new building on the hill. Although I learned later that some outpatient pediatric care is still done here. Today (tuesday) I saw a little girl about 2 or 3 years old waiting outside under the trees with her momma.  She had an IV site in place.  James said she was probably there for chemo, but that's just a guess.  She may be very sick and still needing diagnosis. 



We stepped inside the out-patient ward. The “rooms” had 4-6 beds in them all with patients being cared for mostly by their loved ones. In the 2nd room they had about 10 doctors and med students doing rounds. I think there were 3 rooms like that but then there were also at least 3 patients in the hall laying on beds or the floor. One with a screen blocking only ½ the bed and a loved one, not a nurse, cleaning up the patient. Something that should be done in complete privacy. We'd never, ever see anything like it in our hospitals back home.



Next we got to meet the one and only Dr. Jackson Orem! He was the first, and for a very long time, the only oncologist in all of Uganda. He is now the director of the UCI.



The next stop was the STC, solid tumor center. We walked into a very large room filled with activity. Six or more beds (in ONE large room) filled with patients, several large rooms off at each direction of the room. We only briefly walked in but didn't stay. It quickly felt just not right to be there, invading in such sensitive privacy. One patient immediately stood out. She had several doctors around her and her leg was exposed to all. It looked as if a very large area of skin around her foot and ankle had been cut away, probably a tumor removed. No privacy...the most difficult part of it all.



The most obvious and difficult things to see and take in; there is no privacy and there aren't enough places for people to be taken care of so they wait on the ground outside or lay on the floors in the hallways.

That is part of my first day here at the UCI. Just the beginnings.

In His Love,
Susan Sophia


Monday, April 20, 2015

First Impressions

I am in Uganda, Africa. 

The concept is actually quite surreal despite the fact that I am really here!  I suspect each day it will feel more and more real.

After 20 hours of actual flying time(3 separate flights) and layovers and drives, door to door was about 35 hours of travel. 
For the first 2 days we didn't venture out much except to go shopping.  We went to a mall that resembled that of one in America with lots of little shops and a big elevator.  A place for the wealthy to shop. 






The roads are bad.  Huge potholes everywhere.  The driving is crazy and that is putting it mildly.  I do not think I could ever drive here.  You must be aggressive.  No rules to go by at all.  You just drive. On the drive from the airport it was dark and Isma, the driver for the UCI, knew I was nervous.  He said, “You are in good hands, just relax.”  You get used to it quickly though.  I'm not so nervous any longer.  We've been out to eat a few times and each one a nice place for the wealthy “muzungu's” (muzungu is swahili for “one who wanders about aimlessly” and they use it today for us white folks). The 2nd dinner out I had a lamb dish and James had pork.  He had a beer and then with dinner we each had a glass of wine.  We paid 60,000 shillings which is about $20!


But you see, after these first couple of days it became very clear to me that one could really live here and have very little exposure to the real poverty that is so great.  One could really live in great wealth and as long as you kept to the malls and restaurants that are created for us wealthy muzungu's you'd see very little and the tug at your heart would be slight if at all. 

On Sunday, yesterday, we went to the Parish of St. George which is in the suburbs of Kampala, about a 25 minute drive.  Here was my first look at some of the slums.  We drove by many and the church is in a pretty rough area.  Fr. Stephen himself lives nearby.  He makes very little as a priest and therefore has a side job, he makes bricks. St. George is a tiny little parish.  There were 10 people in the congregation including the choir.  There were 3 altar servers.
What a lovely and beautiful service.  I loved the 3 young men who sang in the choir, what lovely voices.  It was really neat to hear Christ is Risen in Lugandan, recognizing the melody. 

As we drove to church we drove by these places.  In the little stream/river there were hundreds of these Marabou Storks. 
They were huge!!  From a distance they looked as if they were bigger than Joseph. I just looked, the wing span is 7.4-9.4 feet and they are about 4 feet tall.
You can see in the picture how some people live around here.


This is just the first impressions. I head to the Uganda Cancer Institute with James this morning.  This, I am sure, will be of an incredibly different experience than I have had so far or ever in my life.

Until then,
Susan Sophia

Monday, April 06, 2015

New Adventures


I haven't blogged in a very, very long time.  My life is far too boring and busy with mundane to think about sharing anything.  

But...

It is about to get very exciting and I decided I needed to record the excitement!

In just 9 days I will be boarding my first ever international flight and tagging along with my husband on a business trip to Uganda.  

James works for Fred Hutchinson Cancer Research Institute in Global Oncology.  Here you can learn what his company is doing in Uganda.  

I will be doing some volunteering at the Uganda Child Cancer Foundation.

I will also get to meet our sponsored "son" Henry and his family and go see the workings of the organization, St. Nicholas Uganda Children's Fund, that does so much for Henry and hundreds of other children in Kampala. 

So, if you're interested and following along on one of the biggest adventures of my life, check back often starting April 15th.

In the meantime, may this Holy Week be productive and beautiful as we walk with Christ through His Passion and as He conquers death by death and as we see His Glorious Resurrection!

In His Love,
Susan Sophia

Wednesday, October 09, 2013

Hello dear readers, if you are still there. Life is FULL.  

Full of ups and full of downs and every hill in between.  

Some days I fall apart and some days are pure bliss. 

I cannot lie.  I don't want to pretend. 

Every year of my life seems to move faster, relentlessly.

What has the last 6 months brought? How must I find thankfulness at every turn?  I'm still counting, slow but sure.  Months go by as I forget to pick up the pen.  And forget to be thankful, yielding to the demands of the fast paced, wired world that calls my name at every tick of the clock.  

Suddenly I realize I've lost 6 months of my life to grumbling, hurried and hairy-ed interactions.  And for what?

My children grow...
Kelsey will be 17 in just over a month and started a "running start" program through the local high school where she is attending college FULL TIME.  I pay for books, they pay tuition.  Sweet! 
Charissa is 14 now and has finally decided to take ownership of her schooling.  Her favorite study? Astronomy.  She is diving in.
Nicholas will be 13 in 2 months!  THIRTEEN!  OH my!  He is getting tall and his feet are bigger than mine and his hands are huge and soon he will grow into them.  He is 100% boy.
Joseph is 11 and still loves to cuddle.  Although TODAY, at our home school co-op, he would NOT give me a hug because down the hall was one of his friends.  We laughed.  He recognized the change and hugged me in secret.  This was huge for my heart. 

My babies are all gone.  People keep telling me that I need to relish the moments I have them because soon they will leave my home and enter their own.  Yes, this is true. But you see, the "children" are already gone from my arms.  Those are the days to cherish.  They days they fit in your arms, they days they WANT to be in your arms. Those are the  days I cling to in my mind as the now most difficult years are upon me.  The year they pull and yank and run, to find there own way in the world.

James, my beloved of over 19 years, grows...
James found his way back to Fred Hutchinson Cancer Research Center and the Uganda Cancer Institute.  He started his new job in June and has already been to Uganda twice.  He just returned on Friday from his 2nd trip.  He loves his new job and now he has begun serving at a small mission Church while he is there. 

And I grow...or I hope I am.  Striving to find my path; climbing, falling, climbing. Halting. Continueing. Striving. Knowing that the truest, most beautiful path is one that points to God.  I'm looking at new things:
Homeschooling with Gentleness
Grain Brain
Dr. Wilson

And most importantly I'm counting again.  Thankful for every day.  Despite how it turns out. What I do do or no not do.  OR what my children do or do not do.  

I want to find the good in every day.

Today the sun was shining.
I got that secret hug.
My mom made an amazing dinner for us.
I chopped wood.
Made the FIRST fire of the season in the wood stove.
Laughed with the kids.
Sang.
Chatted with many a friend at co-op.
Saw the cutest baby I've seen in a long time.
Started a good book.
 

What are you thankful for today?
 



 
 

Monday, May 13, 2013

A Shakespeare Production!

Come one and all!!!!  Especially those nearby, or relatively nearby.

Saturday, April 13, 2013

Monastery Visits



On Thursday, April 11th, our family took a "field trip" to Vashon Island.  It wasn't a field trip for school, it's just fun calling it that. But well, we did sight see a bit.  The purpose of the trip was to visit All-Merciful Savior Monastery and visit with Abbot Tryphon. 
Continuing to count...not in order today.
 150. Our whole family taking a day trip to Vashon Island & monastery.
Kelsey Anna, Charissa, Nicholas and Joseph by the Bike in the Tree on Vashon Island.

 We stopped off at cute little country store and explored a little bit.  They had all sorts of neat gardening things and trinkets.
Then we went to find the famous Bike in the Tree.  It was really neat. 
 

When we arrived at the monastery we pulled into the parking space and right in front of us was another family visiting the monastery.  It was a family of deer!

Look closely and you'll see the mama deer.

The monastery beehives. They were pretty active.
 I love taking pictures of my children. Here are some sweet faces.


148. Reluctant young daughter smiling & at ease after talking with Fr. Tryphon unexpectedly.
149. Peace, peace in my mind & heart! Giving all to God & the Theotokos.





 After a morning full of clouds and rain, we were blessed to have the clouds break up and a very sunny afternoon as we visited with Fr. Tryphon.  There were 3 of us who have chosen Fr. Tryphon as our father confessor and we were there for our Lenten confessions and guidance.
 151. Confessions, forgiveness, new starts.
152. Sweet faces framed in scarves.  

Kelsey Anna waiting.

Nicholas was the one of the protesters of this trip. He did not want to go! But as were hanging out in the courtyard he explained...
147. Nicholas exclaiming, "I love this place. It makes me so happy." 
He talked all day about how he wished he could stay or he couldn't want to come back. 

Nicholas in front of the beautiful Church doors.

Joseph having cuddle time.  He was cold.



 We got to visit our chickens that we took to the monastery a couple years ago.



It was such a lovely visit to the monastery.  We thank God for this opportunity to be together as a family. 
Thank you, Abbot Tryphon for seeing us and visiting with us.
146. A beautiful visit to the monastery.  


Wednesday, April 03, 2013

Lenten Spring

This year Great Lent began 2 days before the official start of spring.  I find it appropriate and beautiful.  

As we make our way down this lenten path, we watch as life renews itself all around us.  The budding trees, the bulbs emerging, grass growing, birds readying for hatching. Life! Full and vibrant.  

At the end of the lenten path we find true life.  We find life that has conquered all that is dark and dead.

I must get ready. Weeding and pruning, scrubbing and cleaning.  Not just the outside world but within my heart. 
Getting ready for life. To really live!

(Since my last blog post I've counted 40+ blessings, so I am not writing them all down here, just an excerpt from my journal.)
Counting....on my way to One Thousand!  Glory to God for all things.
108. Forgiveness: seeking it and receiving it.
109. 4 loads of laundry done.
110. All four beautiful babes at Canon with me & dad. Singing or prostrating, participating.
111. Giggles from girls at bedtime after a tense, angry evening between them.

Red-flowering Currant. The hummingbirds love this.
127. Making dinner with CJ.
128. Planting spinach and sweet peas.
129. 64 degrees
130. Hanging sheets on the line to dry in the sun.

   Oh, give thanks to the Lord, for He is good!
    For His mercy endures forever. 
 Oh, give thanks to the God of gods!
    For His mercy endures forever. 
 Oh, give thanks to the Lord of lords!
    For His mercy endures forever: